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Common questions

Before you write — quick answers

• What is a rest day?

  A rest day lets you skip a date intentionally without losing your streak — provided you have a rest slot or a Streak Freeze. Marked rest days appear as 🌙 on your strip and other participants' rosters; the reason you picked stays private to you.
• How do my mode and rest slots work?

  Your commitment mode decides how many rest slots you get each week (Mon–Sun):

  • Every day: 0 weekly rest slots. Rest is only safe with a Streak Freeze.
  • 5-6 days/week: 1 rest slot per week.
  • 3-4 days/week: 3 rest slots per week.

  Slots reset each Monday. You can mark rest for today or yesterday (24h grace).
• What is a Streak Freeze?

  A Streak Freeze is a "skip pass" that protects your streak in Every-day mode. You earn one every time you reach a 30-day clean streak. Using a freeze on a rest day keeps your streak alive and consumes one freeze from inventory.
• Why can't I mark rest in Every-day mode?

  Every-day mode has no built-in rest slots — that's the contract. You can still mark a rest day, but it won't bridge your streak unless you spend a Streak Freeze. Switch to 5-6 or 3-4 days/week in Settings if you want regular rest days built into your commitment.
• I missed a day. What happens to my streak?

  Your streak resets to zero. We don't send guilt notifications — show up tomorrow and start a new one. Most of our longest streaks come after a reset.
• My snap got rejected by my partner. Can I appeal?

  Right now your partner's vote is final for that day. If you think a partner is voting in bad faith, send us their handle and the day in question — we review every report.
• Can I leave a challenge early?

  Yes, from the challenge page → Settings → Leave challenge. Your partner will be notified and re-matched. Your streak in that challenge ends but your overall account is fine.
• How do I delete my account?

  Settings → Danger Zone → Delete account. It’s permanent and removes every snap, streak, and message. Go to Settings →
• I'm not getting partner notifications. What do I check?

  On iOS / Android, allow notifications when prompted. On the web, click the bell in the header and grant permission. If you're still missing them, send us the device and OS — that's usually enough to fix it.

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